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Children and choresThere is a concern within society in recent years that a great many adolescents and young adults do not have the strong work ethic of their parents' and grandparents' generation. The next generation is often described as "overindulged" and lacking in responsibility. So how can parents raise a child to become a responsible adult? One suggestion is to expect children to help with household chores such as cleaning up the kitchen after a meal, helping with laundry, and mowing the lawn. When parents put their children to work at home, they are teaching them responsibilities that will apply when they are adults in the workforce. In fact, it is vital that children learn good work skills and habits at a young age in order to be able to function as a competent adult. In addition, as children are taught to take care of the place where they live, they will also be learning how their efforts contribute to the welfare of the entire family, just as their efforts as they become older will contribute to the larger community and society. Assigned chores should be related to a child's age and abilities. A toddler can learn to help pick up their toys, and will need assistance and supervision. Older children can take on more responsibility and learn to complete a task on their own. Some children will require more patience on the part of the parents, along with additional help. Doing a good job gives youngsters the opportunity to learn to take pride in work achievements. If the chore isn't done exactly right, parents need to offer encouragement and also need to expect a better effort. Keep in mind that some day, as an adult, they will be working for a boss with similar, if not higher, expectations. Contributed by Karen Schueler, MS, LCPC, Manager, Consultation and Education Dept. Mail questions to: High Plains Mental Health Center, PLAIN SENSE, Consultation and Education Department, 208 East 7th, Hays, KS 67601; or visit www.highplainsmentalhealth.com.
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